Having a conversation on the phone with my family is something I never had to do until I moved away from home. Actually, truly talking to my parents in general was a rarity — a symptom of what happens when people live and co-exist together.
As soon as I moved, the telephone became to the primary conduit for engagement between my parents and I. I was initially shocked at how much conversation actually occurs when two people are talking to one another without distractions and filters — no places to go, no food to eat at the dinner table, no dogs running around/licking themselves, no television. Just two people trying to fill transmitted sound waves with words.
In 2005, my conversations with my dad struggled to reach the 1 minute mark. Yesterday, in 2018, I finally broke the 5 minute mark. To celebrate this critical moment, I have mapped out a typical conversation with my dad from minute 0 to minute 5.
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Next Week: A map of a conversation with my mom. Oh boy.